Slight of mouth in relationships and dating
Biting your own lip tenderly while in the midst of a flirtatious encounter can be a very seductive act.Prepare for it by practicing, and by maintaining healthy attractive lips.If a business owner took society’s dating advice for her business, she’d probably fail, and if she succeeded, it would be partially due to good luck—and that’s how society wants us to approach dating.In a study on what governs our dating choices more, our preferences or our current opportunities, opportunities wins hands down—our dating choices are “98% a response…to market conditions and just 2% immutable desires.In other words, here’s what’s happening in reality: Dissatisfied single people should actually consider themselves in a neutral, fairly hopeful position, compared to what their situation could be.A single person who would like to find a great relationship is one step away from it, with their to-do list reading, “1) Find a great relationship.” People in unhappy relationships, on the other hand, are threeleaps away, with a to-do list of “1) Go through a soul-crushing break-up. 3) Find a great relationship.” Not as bad when you look at it that way, right?I have just come across clarification on a statistic I cited in “Can Relationships That Start as Affairs Succeed?
This is logical, because that’s the way you proceed when you want to do something well and minimize mistakes.
This shouldn’t be a surprise—in life, you usually don’t get good at something until you’ve done it a bunch of times.